Hedonism II – Day 2

Friday morning I awoke with a new found respect for that hot tub.  My head was pounding and moving made me feel nauseous.  Boyfriend forced me out of bed and helped me change to go get food in my stomach.  The breakfast at Hedo is pretty good, especially after a night of heavy drinking.  The omelets are awesome and I was even given a “baby omelette” because it was clear that I was hurting a little bit!

After breakfast and going back to the room to toke and change into a bathing suit, we went to explore the resort in the day light.  Being on the prude side, we started our exploring on that side of the beach.  The water is breathtaking and crystal clear.  I have been blessed with vising many cities around the world, and I can genuinely state that the water in Negril is some of the most beautiful I have seen.  If it wasn’t for all the sexy naked people distracting me, I would have gone out in the water a lot more!

We immediately saw a group of girls while we were walking up the prude beach.  They were young, and to be honest, seemed a little out of place.  They stopped us as we walked by because they could smell the J that we were smoking and wanted a toke.  We had a pretty good conversation with them, they were dental assistants who came down on a mission trip to help clean local’s teeth and had a day off.  They were recommended to visit Hedonism so they got day passes.  My instinct was correct…they were a little out of place but funny and very polite!  It was a good start to our exploration, seeing some cute girls in bikinis!  We decided to wander closer and closer to the nude beach…

Halfway down the beach we came across some signs which boldly instruct that you must be naked to continue.  Neither boyfriend nor I are shy away from nakedness so we stripped down, stuffed our clothes into the beach bag and continued on our way.  Immediately I noticed how relaxed and laid back everyone was and really could care less about being naked; actually, I loved being naked!  We got some drinks (I was hurting so I went with water) and went in the pool to watch the game that was going on.  Boyfriend is one of those guys that I would describe as very secure – not egotistical at all, but just knows his own drum and beats to it (maybe that is why we click so well…).  Anyways, the entertainment staff had some dancing competitions start up and sure enough he was up there naked shaking his ass.  Literally I think his butthole was 5 inches from my face as I watched in the pool and he gyrated above me and performed the “helicoKter”!  I am so thankful he has the fearlessness to get up there because EVERYONE remembered us after that.  The entertainment staff was wicked, I really enjoyed the games and music!

We played some drinking games in the pool, talked to other couples who were hanging around and had a really relaxing afternoon.  I think some rain blew in and dispersed the group that was at the pool.  We were starving from our active afternoon so we grabbed some quick snacks at the nude grill and went back to the room to get ready for dinner.

I got all dressed up for dinner again, this time in my rock star outfit.  Never before have I EVER been able to wear what I wanted to dinner.  Usually you have to cover up, look presentable and dress the part that society deems “appropriate”.  At Hedonism, as long as you are not naked, you can pretty much wear what you want.  I chose a leather skirt that barely covered my butt cheeks, sexy thong, fringed crop top with pasties over my nipples and flip flops. 

We sat a table ourselves and ate our dinner.  I was starting to be feel exhausted from the long day, day-drinking and previous night festivities.  When the entertainment started, we went back to the room.  The honest reason being that I did NOT want to go up on that stage feeling like I did, and we had every intention of going back out to the party in an hour or so.  The night was lovely.  It was clear, warm and humid and we romantically walked under the moonlight towards our room.  During our time at Hedonism, I noticed that there was a strong sexual energy surrounding the place.  It is almost like the energy massages your sexes during the day, in the heat and surrounded by nakedness, and then unleashes your carnal desires and primal rawness at night.  I say this because every night, no matter if we were alone or had others involved, we had incredible toe curling sex.

As we neared the building our room resided in, I could feel my pussy start the throb for him.  I stopped to kiss him and run my hand down his chest and toward his cock.  I raised a surprised eyebrow and grinned as I stroked his hard cock over his clothes.  I realized then where I was and saucily undid his shorts to get closer to him.  He responded by exposing himself to me.  If there is one thing I cannot resist, it is his cock.  The sight of it, the smell, everything!  Once I see it I cannot help but want to make it feel good and worship it.  I knelled down and started to play with his cock with my mouth; I teased the tip with my tongue and outlined my lips while looking up at him.  He read what my eyes were telling him and said “don’t worry baby, I’ll fuck you good”.  I stood and grabbed him in my hand, marching towards the room.  I needed to have him all over me.

Photo: Alex Gray

Three hours later, we lay panting on the bed with dirty porn on the TV (for those who are interested Hedo has three porn channels that are actually GOOD!).  We have had some pretty mind-blowing sessions between the two of us and this one was among the top of the list.  Boyfriend and I have a connection that runs deeper than many can understand.  The energy between the two of us while we are worshipping each other’s bodies and bring them together is something I have never experienced with any other person.  I am a very aware person spiritually and the energy of the sexiest place I have ever visited coupled with our energy together manifested into hours of colours and orgasms and passionate love.  Yes, Hedonism does cater to people in The Lifestyle and usually you find a lot of people there are involved in it in one way or another.  However, I highly recommend you consider going if you are an open-minded couple who enjoys being naked (and perhaps wants to know more about The Lifestyle).  There are no expectations that you will “swing” and I can guarantee you that you will have some astonishingly sensual nights just between you as a couple.  Where else can you be yourself and just focus on doing exactly what you want to together.  So sexy.

Take care my sexies xoxoxxx

Hedonism II – Day 1

We are back!  I have glowing sun-kissed skin and a smile on my face!  We both had an amazing time on our trip; it was everything we imagined it could be and more.  I am so happy we took this adventure together, it will be a memory I can cherish for a lifetime.  Already I am trying to find a way to book another trip soon with a group (more to come on those findings in future blog posts!).

Due to sheer curiosity I decided to look up what “hedonism” actually meant.  According to Wikipedia, “Hedonism is a school of thought that argues that pleasure is the primary or most important intrinsic good.  In very simple terms, a hedonist strives to maximize net pleasure.”  From what I experienced, this sums up the resort quite nicely.  Every day we did exactly what we wanted to in order to be happy and at peace; I can honestly say there is something for everyone!  Looking back on the experience I would recommend the resort to any couple who is open minded.  You do not have to be in The Lifestyle to feel like you would fit in and if you are, you likely are in for a great week!  On a side note as well - I can often type a lot information and make a blog post turn into a novel…so I figured if I did this review in segments, it would be a lot easier on my readers (and my hands from cramping up!).

Boyfriend and I left Calgary early in the morning to catch our flight to Toronto and then from Toronto to Montego Bay.  Fair warning to travelers coming from Western Canada – it is a long travel day!  We did have fun in the airports goofing around getting day drunk, but we were go-go-go from 5AM until we got to Hedonism around 8:30PM (Jamaica time).  Most tourists will land in Montego Bay and take a tour bus (arranged by themselves or through a travel company) from the airport to Negril, our trip from the airport to the resort took about an hour and a half.  I know in the future I will try to book a private car as the tour bus wasn’t the most luxurious and it is a long haul after an exhausting day of airports and planes.

When we arrived at the resort, we were pleasantly greeted by the front of house staff.  Check in was seamless and there were no problems.  We even got a couple of guests poking their heads in and saying hi, which made us excited to see more!  We originally booked a garden view room on the prude side (aka clothing optional) and figured that since it was low season at, we might be able to upgrade for a smaller amount then through WestJet.  Unfortunately the price was still same ($1000CAD/EA) so we decided to just stay with our original booking.

The classic rooms are decent but nothing fancy.  We had a small fridge, flat screen TV, dresser, nightstands and a king bed complete with mirrors on the ceiling (which I LOVED!).  My only complaints were the fact that the dresser drawers were in serious need of repair and super frustrating to use and the bathroom was outdated and small.  I love my bathrooms and especially love bathroom sex so having a bathroom that two of us couldn’t even fit in was a little disappointing.  The shower probably was the most discouraging, I didn’t feel comfortable having my bare feet in the shower because it looked pretty old and worn and we only ever had super-hot water or super cold water.  Maybe we were missing something on how to use the faucets?  Besides those minor surface updates, I think having some drinks (ANY) in the room would be nice.  Perhaps a couple bottles of Red Stripe or water to quench the thirst would be a nice addition.  I understand the resort wants people out of their rooms to mingle, but for getting ready for dinner or for some “cuddle time” alone it would have been nice to have available.

We were starving when we arrived so we quickly got ready and went to check out the dinner buffet.  At this point, I was already starting to feel a little lit up from the arrival drinks and I remember us destroying our buffet dinner pretty quickly.  We were super excited to check out the resort so we rolled up a juicy blunt and walked around a bit before getting ready for the foam toga party.  While we were strolling around, I did notice that Hedonism is a beautiful and well cared for resort.  The grounds and gardens are clean and I didn’t really notice anything that looked out of place, dirty or worn.  The pools and hot tubs definitely could use a facelift but I do understand that is a huge and expensive undertaking.  I also did not notice a lot of bugs on the resort, whether it be flying ones or spiders which was kind of nice seeing as I am from Canada and we don’t have too many creepy crawlers here.

After our blunt and walk we went back to the room to get ready for the foam party.  I, of course, brought tons of outfits with me and immediately put my sexy lace toga and thong on.  Usually I would NEVER be ok wearing something like that to a festival back home, but Hedo is different!  The foam party at Club Hurricane turned out to be a lot of fun!  We danced with some others in the foam pit and had a few light conversations with others in the club.  It was slow season though so honestly there were not a lot of people.  Boyfriend suggested that maybe it was time to check out the naked hot tub and there was no way I wanted to turn the offer down.

I had NO IDEA what to expect.  How many people would be there?  Did I get naked before?  Or did I un-dress there in front of everyone?  I started to get nervous and in my own head and boyfriend finally cleared it up for me.  He reminded me that everyone who was here was here to do what they wanted to and that I should never feel like someone is judging me at this place.  Honestly, this is the truth about Hedo.  No one goes there to poke fun at others and what they like or enjoy.  Everyone goes there to get away from that bull shit.  So I stripped down, threw on my beach cover which covered next to nothing and we walked hand in hand to the naked hot tub together.  I was elated to be in such a wonderful and freeing place and made conversation with almost every person that we passed along the way.

We finally found our way to the hot tub after getting lost more than once and being told we were entering restricted areas.  I proudly took my cover off and slinked into the very hot hot tub.  The booze combined with the hot tub meant I had to sit on the side.  We ended up talking to a couple and I soon realized there was no reason to be worried in the first place.  They were a gorgeous couple, but completely laid back and down to earth.  We found out they were from Eastern Europe and from there easy conversation flowed.  The nice thing about going to Hedo when you are in The Lifestyle is that most people are not from the city you are from.  This opens up the door for a lively conversation and usually helps to make people comfortable fairly quickly (aka good ice breaker!). 

Although we were in good company and having obvious fun, it was also apparent the jet leg, booze, lack of food and very hot tub caught up with me.  We parted from the sexy couple and started to make our way back to the room.  Thank goodness boyfriend found out where the late night food was and made sure to make a stop for us to grab something to bring to the room.  After grabbing some delicious comfort food we stumbled home naked in the moonlight.  After making good use of the mirrors on the ceiling and eating our drunk food we passed out, excited for what the next day had to bring!

Take care my sexies xoxoxxx