We awoke late the next morning
and ended up catching the tail end of breakfast. It was our last full day at Hedo so I wasn’t
that happy about missing our breakfast, but we were able to find some fruit and
banana bread and fill our tummies. While
I finished eating, Boyfriend went to check with the tourist desk at the front to
see if the Catamaran would be doing the tour to Rick’s Café later in the
afternoon. We had signed up a few days
earlier in hopes that we could check out the restaurant and see some cliff
jumping. Unfortunately not enough people
had signed up (you need 10 people) so we opted on going to do some snorkeling
on the prude beach and seeing if we could cab it to Rick’s Café instead.
Boyfriend was able to convince me
to go out on the blue foamie for some snorkeling around the prude beach. Typically, I am not a swimmer and terrified
of water so this was a big deal to me!
We floated all along the beach looking at the gorgeously coloured fish
and snapping pictures. After an hour I
had seen my fair share of creepy crawlies in the water and retreated to my
lounger chair. I noticed a couple we had
spoken to a few times some chairs down from me and started to talk to them
about their plans for the day.
They wanted to go on the catamaran
tour as well, but like us, realized there were not enough people. The guy said there may be a possibility of
setting something up with another tour group that picked up people from each
resort. I told him we would be in for
that and we all agreed on a game plan should the opportunity present
itself. Eventually my Boyfriend and his
wife surfaced from snorkeling and we all parted ways, excited for our Plan B
catamaran trip. The couple went to go
talk to the off-resort catamaran tour person and Boyfriend and I decided it was
time to eat again. We were starving from
our light breakfast and morning swim adventure; we went to go clean up in our
room and grab food at the buffet for lunch.
We had both just sat down from
grabbing food when the catamaran couple found us. They had found a tour group that was willing
to pick them up, but they were leaving in the next 5 minutes. I looked at my delicious plate of food and
drinks in front of me and then out at the water (it had just started to rain).
I looked at Boyfriend with the hanger-iest eyes ever in desperation. He knew I needed the food and although I was
pretty pissed to give up the catamaran, we needed to eat. We said goodbye to the couple and told them
to have fun. We said there may be a
chance of us meeting them at Rick’s later on.
They quickly hustled back to the dock to catch the catamaran and we
enjoyed our lunch together.
After we finished the food we so
desperately needed, we went to talk to a driver to arrange a ride to Rick’s
Café. We chatted with one who said he
would be more than happy to give us a ride for $40US (there and back). We picked a time to leave and then took our
last day walk around the resort. It was
pretty sad knowing that the last day was upon us. Neither of us wanted to leave and neither of
us wanted to go back to “real life” where we would need to be clothed. We made sure to spend some time at the nude
pool and beach as well. The older couple
we had spoken to from the night before was in the nude pool and instantly
started off up a conversation with us again when we were getting drinks from
the bar. We easily talked to them about
The Lifestyle and their experience at the resort. They said that it seemed slow around the
resort, and although they talked sexually to a few couples, they hadn’t found
anything much more then soft swapping.
She also confessed that the last couple they had tried to swing with had
some issues in the bedroom; troubles with performance, and she and I bonded
over talking and relating to this. It is
actually something that can be quite common in The Lifestyle, especially when
the man might be a little shyer and the other women is more “take charge” or
confident. In my experience, if a couple
is new to The Lifestyle and a little more reserved or shy, the guy can get a
little intimidated. It’s just something
I have observed, and so had she, so we bonded and got tipsy and shared some
laughs. Boyfriend was the one who noticed
that we were getting close to needing to leave for Rick’s Café so we parted
ways from the older couple to go get ready in our room and smoke a J before
leaving the resort.
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I pondered the women on our walk
back to the room and announced to Boyfriend that I figured she could use a good
fucking. As I mentioned before,
Boyfriend is good at giving it to women and I often joke that I “stud him
out”. I told him I would have no issues
with studding him out to her so she could experience a young hot sexy fuck on
her vacation. He looked at me, eyes wide
open and grinning and agreed he could sense she needed it too. We laughed at our dirty plan together and excitedly
got ready for driving out to the cliffs at Rick’s Café.
I was nervous to leave the resort
again, but our driver seemed kind and was also familiar with the people at the resort
so I could sense he was there regularly.
He chatted us up while driving to Rick’s, asking where we had gone and
what we had seen. We confessed that we
hadn’t done much off the resort and he scolded us for missing out on some
awesome tourists’ spots. We agreed that
is sucked we missed out on seeing the waterfalls and Bob Marley’s grave BUT we
also didn’t come to the resort to sightsee a lot. We came to find some sexy fun and get to know
the resort first. I think our driver
took the sound of disappointment in our voices as a sign that we wanted to sightsee
some more off the resort, so he took us for a tour of that area of the
island. I am actually happy he did that
for us. We got to see a lot of Negril
and a lot of crazy driving. We were just
getting comfortable with driving around when he stopped off the road at a
market. Boyfriend happily jumped out of
the car with the driver and I did at first but then hesitated and went back to
the car. The driver assured me there was
nothing bad here and I could shop, but I was uncomfortable and needed to get to
know him a little better before getting out on the side of the road. Boyfriend and him both rolled their eyes but I
know my comfortability level and I was not there yet!
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Rick’s Café was amazing from the
moment we got there! There were lots of
locals and lots of tourists mixed in and the vibe was chill and laid back. The view was honestly the MOST BEAUTIFUL I
had ever seen in my whole life. The
endless turquoise water crashing against the grey was mesmerizing to watch and
provided an amazing back drop for photos!
We walked around in awe taking in all the beauty and people around us
before finding the cliffs that everyone was jumping off. We watched a few locals jump and a few
tourists jump before Boyfriend turned around with huge eye and exclaimed he was
going to give it a whirl. I was way too
scared to try (non-swimmer and scared of water is not a good combo for this) so
of course I wanted him to go so I could say one of us went! He said to give it some time so he could
watch a few more go and get amped up.
It didn’t take long for us to run
into the couple from the beach earlier in the morning. We found a table to have some Red Stripes and
listen to the live Reggae music. We
asked them how the Catamaran was and they said it was awesome and for a while,
it was just them two. Eventually though,
the group grew to around 100 people because of everyone they picked up at
different resorts. Boyfriend eventually
got a little liquid courage in his system and announced it was time to go cliff
jumping. He went to the launch off point
and stripped down while the three of us found some spots to film him.
Soon after Boyfriend finished his
cliff jumping, it was time for the other couple to leave on the Catamaran. We said good bye again and then enjoyed a
couple more beers together before finding our driver who was waiting for us and
started on our way back to the resort. I
told him that I was ready to do a little shopping now that I had a little more
trust in him and some beers in my belly.
We stopped at the market on the way back to the resort and picked up
some touristy items to bring back to Canada with us. Looking back I am SO happy we did this
because we now have some of the items in our house and they provide great
memories of our trip together.
As it was our last night at the
resort, I had to go all out with my outfit.
It was fetish night and I loved dressing up in my leather and lace! I got ready in the room with Boyfriend and we
hurried to catch some dinner and find some other couples to sit with. We wanted to sit at a table with other
couples so we could mingle (both of us were feel frisky!), so we walked around
and found the older couple from earlier at a table with others. We asked if we could sit with them for dinner
and they gladly obliged and shuffled over for us. We chatted a lot and made sure Boyfriend sat
next to the women so he could get some flirt on. We watched the spectacular show put on by the
entertainment staff, it so steamy and sexy and horned up the atmosphere a
couple of notches. Exactly what we
needed!
We danced after dinner and shared
some laughs with the couple. It was
refreshing to get another view of The Lifestyle and amazing to see that you can
own and explore your sexuality AT ANY AGE.
I loved picking the couples brain’s about how they “practised” being in
The Lifestyle. The older couple gave us
a ton of great tips that we actually now apply in our lives. They were both very confident in themselves
and in their relationship and opened up a lot to both of us.
With that being said, I feel like
I also need to share an experience I had at the resort. If you are squeamish about PERIODS then this
might be TMI for you – but honestly I hope you aren’t if you are part of The
Lifestyle because at some point this is something you will run into! I knew that I was bound to get my period
while in Jamaica months before leaving for our trip. I believe in knowing your natural cycle and
am not a huge advocate of using hormones when you don’t need to; however, I didn’t
want to have my period while on vacation so I started taking the pill about 3
months before we left for our trip.
Unfortunately, my cycle is a force to reckon with and did not want to
cooperate with the pill. It did push my
period back a couple of days but I did end up getting it early that day. I knew this would happen so before we left on
our trip, I googled what others had done in my situation. Surprisingly, I found out this was a common
concern for women at these resorts. Through
chat forums I found out about an awesome product called Softcups. Softcups are the brand you can get in Canada
(there are different ones in the States) and are a flexible cup that is worn
internally, around your cervix to collect, rather than absorb, menstrual flow.
It's hypo-allergenic, latex-free and completely safe to use. Unlike other types of menstrual cups, YOU CAN
HAVE SEX WITH THIS IN. I want to do a
complete review of this product but I can assure you they work and you can have
sex. Of course it is not the same but it
saves you from tampon strings hanging around and really no one could tell you
were on your period unless they felt it inside of you. SO, back to Day 6!
I told the couple that I was on
my period and they honestly couldn’t care less.
I just didn’t want to come up awkwardly if we did end up playing, I
wanted to make sure everyone knew ahead of time and was aware. Boyfriend and I excused ourselves a little
later on to go toke up in our room and check out the Club to see if it was
busy. The Club was pretty dead again
when we went in to grab drinks. Boyfriend
left me at the bar to go use the washroom so I started talking to a couple who
was also hanging at the bar. It turned
out they were Lady Dee and Sarge from Vacation Parties. They are Canadians as well and we connected over
that and they asked me about how I found the resort. I admitted it was pretty dead the last few
days and they were in agreeance with me.
They told me we should book through them to go with a group the next
time we wanted to come and I said I would be 100% down with that. When Boyfriend showed up, I introduced him
and we parted ways. We had to go find
the older couple because I wanted to watch Boyfriend rock her world.
We found them enjoying champagne
at the bar and joined them for another drink.
We were all tipsy and laughing and Boyfriend and I exchanged “glances”
and invited them back to our room. They
shared a toke with us outside our room and the men went to grab us some more refreshments. The woman and I were pretty plastered and
took funny pictures while waiting for the men.
I made it clear to her that I was comfortable with Boyfriend showing her
a good time. She appreciated my honestly
and for being straight forward. Sometimes
things can get a little awkward if boundaries are not discussed beforehand and
if couples don’t know certain “rules”.
This especially can happen at resorts because unlike at home where you
discuss these things online before meeting a couple, YOU ACTUALLY HAVE TO TALK
FACE TO FACE!
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As soon as Boyfriend walked in
with another flute of champagne for her, she pounced on him. I slyly gave him the “eyes” and turned some
of my attention to her husband. We played
but our attention was more on what was going on. Boyfriends’ thick, large cock was hard and
erect for her just as I knew it would be.
She spent some time showing his hard cock appreciation; I could tell she
wanted his dick bad. It didn’t take long
before he took control of what was going on and forced her on her back on the
bed. He got on his knees and made
himself comfortable between her legs. She
screamed out with pleasure as he played with her pussy. He used his tongue and hands and gave her
orgasm after orgasm. It excited me
knowing he was providing her with so much pleasure and dedication. When she was whimpering for more in between
orgasms, he assumed the “squirting” position and went to work making her pussy even
wetter and preparing her for her fucking.
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He grabbed a condom from where we
had strategically placed them before and effortlessly slide it on (putting on
condoms fast is an ART). Our travel lube
was also carefully placed by the condoms and he made sure his hard cock was set
for her. He thrust into her hard and
deep like he normally did when fucking someone new for the first time. I shot him a cunning smile and we looked at
each other for a second because we knew it felt amazing to her when she cried
out. He continued thrusting faster and
faster making her cry out longer and louder, fucking her exactly the way she
had wanted to be fucked. He moved
positions with her – he knew which ones felt good and gave it to her even
harder. Her husband and continued to
play and watch, I was getting so turned on knowing that she was getting her hot
vacation sex by someone who knew exactly how to fuck.
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We lost track of time and eventually
I glanced at the clock and panicked for a second knowing it was way past our
bedtime and we still had to pack to leave in the morning. The couple thanked us for a wonderful night
(high five Boyfriend!) and we drunkenly packed for our shuttle out the next
morning. We actually missed double
checking what time we were being picked up and half packed before going into
round two together and passing out…
In the morning I naturally woke
up way earlier than other mornings. I
stayed in bed thinking we were still good for time when I had a huge urge to
check the shuttle time. I took it out of
the safe and my heart dropped when I saw we had to leave in one hour – not 3 like
we both assumed. I woke Boyfriend up instantly
and we whirlwind packed with BAD hangovers.
We only had time to grab pastries in the buffet before we checked out
and loaded our stuff onto the shuttle. I
cried to be leaving the wonderful place where we had so much fun and growth
together and, also cried because I was mad we were leaving way earlier and
couldn’t say bye to everyone.
We had a long day of travel
before making it home at around 2AM the next morning. Looking back, we wouldn’t have changed
anything about what we did. We experienced
every side you could to Hedonism; from the party times, to the slow times, to
getting your period. I hope our
experience provides you with enough information to get out there with your
partner and experience your sexuality together!
I plan on doing a What I Like vs. What I’d Like to see
Changed feature on Hedonism II after this post is up. Afterwards, I plan on
going back to regular blog posts on sexuality and The Lifestyle. Don’t be afraid to shoot me an e-mail or
message if you have a particular question you would want to see featured. I would love to get reader feedback!
Take care my sexies xoxoxxxadult
